Sunday, January 24, 2010

Poem For The Deceased On A Wedding Day I Would Like To Read A Poem From Our Deceased Dad At My Sisters Wedding. This Would Mean So Much. Please Help?

I would like to read a poem from our deceased dad at my sisters wedding. This would mean so much. Please help? - poem for the deceased on a wedding day

My father died at 10 weeks ATER fight against cancer. My sister wanted my father to take him into the Ailsa and despite the immense suffering feeling of impending loss of our beloved father began to arrange his wedding with her boyfriend of 5 years.
But Dad was sicker than I had expected ever since should have said so long without something to someone suffered and died 3 weeks before the wedding.
My sister has promised not to marry without her father there, but it's been three years and decided to arrange his marriage.
I know that this day very difficult for us, but he would read a poem from the perspective of the father on the day of the wedding of their daughter.
I do not know is any justice, but I know my sister so.
I would be grateful for any help.
Thanks

10 comments:

Avis B said...

I understand and respect what you are trying to do, but it's not a good idea. A wedding is a celebration (positive) introduced when things are negative things in a celebration that your guests down, and it is not just for members or guests.

A true story. . The couple insisted they light a candle in memory of father of the groom, who died three months before your wedding. Neither the minister nor the immediate family of the young man thought it would be a good idea, but the bride and groom went ahead with their plans anyway. The groom insisted on lighting a candle at the beginning of the ceremony and then tell all the guests at the wedding of his father and his untimely death. At this time the mother called the friend: "Please stop. Please do not say anything more. And then rose from his chair and ran screaming from the chapel." Two of his friends followed her and tried to comfort her. 'S husband of the mother does not return to the place of the ceremony, I was very excited. She travelsed more than five hundred miles to the wedding of his son. . has not seen, heard his son, the state of marriage vows and place a ring on his finger to his new girlfriend, or as "man and woman represented."

There are many things that are done in memory of Father of the bride, but please, not this conclusion on something that will disturb your guests and bring them to the rest of the day.

Answer: A certified marriage / professional wedding consultants a ceremony to celebrate the wedding

new nanna said...

I think it has to be 100% sure that what your sister wants. I'm sure the last one, which is necessary for the buckets of tears at the ceremony. His father died 3 years ago and I know he still feels the loss of their marriage, without which, moreover, the decision of the happiness he feels in her marriage partner. First check - you can in a difficult situation on the day.

new nanna said...

I think it has to be 100% sure that what your sister wants. I'm sure the last one, which is necessary for the buckets of tears at the ceremony. His father died 3 years ago and I know he still feels the loss of their marriage, without which, moreover, the decision of the happiness he feels in her marriage partner. First check - you can in a difficult situation on the day.

"Shakes" said...

I do not want ... if it has taken so long a contract with him is not there, would achieve a further reminder to be published.
Maybe you write it and give it to her when they are made on the evening reception.
Please note, as it can be painfully aware. E is elast I was mad with grief om my wedding day.
I think it's a nice idea, but it must be efficient and discreet with it.

nicoley said...

You do not want people to cry and forget what the day is over (by marriage)

May need to mention that his father was proud of her. a poem can be too much for your sister to carry.

I hope that all the work at the end:)

seikitty said...

There's a country song, "Holes In The Floor Of Heaven" Word Verification. If you go on the Internet and in the title, you must bring the artist and maybe the words and music.

Sophiesm... said...

Personally, I read the poem at the reception or dinner, not the ceremony itself, the ceremony was not all in mourning.

Catherine [Doyle2Be] said...

I think it would be great. Moreover, only an idea of what the environment for small image that bind to the flowers, and she could make her picture on it.

yosalady said...

I think if it is appropriate or not is a difficult question, and has much to do with what the poem is similar.

If the poem is short, and displayed, the opportunity for example, how he loves his family, or the nature of love, then it would be more appropriate than a village, for something completely different.

If the poem is long, off-topic, or sad, do not be too thin to have part of the ceremony.

Have you thought that the poem is part of the reception? Read before the traditional dance of the parents? A moment that could be difficult and sad for the viewers might be better for the atmosphere less formal reception organized with a song that people think, feel and dance together, or talk about their feelings before the rest of the festivities.

Another possibility is the poem in a program setting or a souvenir for the wedding.

Customers can get the poem as a beautiful piece of history and the wedding invitation, so that his words the announcement asNo insert in the wedding program, which are an indication for the wedding favors, or any other type of memory in context.

Contains the poem, but no mention in the context of the event had the chance to abolish the crying people, without having heard the words, without knowing why you're reading, or even with external noise.

yosalady said...

I think if it is appropriate or not is a difficult question, and has much to do with what the poem is similar.

If the poem is short, and displayed, the opportunity for example, how he loves his family, or the nature of love, then it would be more appropriate than a village, for something completely different.

If the poem is long, off-topic, or sad, do not be too thin to have part of the ceremony.

Have you thought that the poem is part of the reception? Read before the traditional dance of the parents? A moment that could be difficult and sad for the viewers might be better for the atmosphere less formal reception organized with a song that people think, feel and dance together, or talk about their feelings before the rest of the festivities.

Another possibility is the poem in a program setting or a souvenir for the wedding.

Customers can get the poem as a beautiful piece of history and the wedding invitation, so that his words the announcement asNo insert in the wedding program, which are an indication for the wedding favors, or any other type of memory in context.

Contains the poem, but no mention in the context of the event had the chance to abolish the crying people, without having heard the words, without knowing why you're reading, or even with external noise.

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